Why can't Ziwei only look at the husband and wife palace when looking at relationships?
Which palaces should be viewed together with the palace of husband and wife?
The couple palace must be connected to the palaces of fortune, migration, life, land and residence to see relationship needs, external interactions and life succession.
The Couple Palace is just the entrance to the relationship, not the whole picture of the relationship.
The palace of husband and wife is of course important, as it is the main entrance to intimate relationships. But if you only look at the couple palace, it is easy to read the relationship into a single conclusion of "what is the partner like" and "whether the marriage is good or not". Relationships in reality are never just about two people liking or disliking each other, but also include self-needs, emotional digestion, living arrangements, family inheritance, external pressure and stage timing.
Therefore, the palace of husband and wife should be read jointly. It is responsible for telling us the main axis of relationship interaction, and the other houses tell us why this relationship works the way it does and whether it can last in the long term.
The horoscope tells what self you bring into a relationship
The same couple palace structure will behave very differently if it falls on people with different horoscopes. For people with a strong life palace, the pressure in the relationship may turn into control and dominance; for people with a sensitive life palace, it may turn into uneasiness and repeated confirmation; for people with a freedom-oriented life palace, even if the couple's palace is stable, they may not like to be overly bound.
When looking at relationships, look at the couple palace first and then go back to the life palace to avoid blaming all relationship problems on the other party. Many modes of getting along are actually the result of the native's own ego axis entering into an intimate relationship.
See if you can settle in the relationship in the Ford Palace
The House of Fortune is an often underestimated house in emotional judgment. It looks at inner contentment, emotional digestion, mental rest, and the ability to be alone. A person's husband and wife palace is very attractive, but the wealth palace is tense for a long time, and the relationship may be warm but uneasy; the husband and wife palace may seem dull, but the wealth palace is stable, which makes it easier to feel comfortable in long-term relationships.
Many relationship problems are not "lack of love" but the inability to settle within. The House of Fortune can explain why a person may be anxious, empty, or unable to enjoy a relationship despite having a relationship.
Tianzhai Palace depends on whether the relationship can fall into life
Relationships occur not only in dates and commitments, but also in shared space, family order, living habits, asset arrangements, and long-term security. Tianzhai Palace looks at whether this relationship can be sustained in life and whether it can move from emotion and attraction to a stable reality structure.
If the Marriage Palace is good but the Tianzhai Palace is unstable, it may be smooth in love and difficult to live together; if the Marriage Palace is stressful but the Tianzhai Palace can handle it, it may not be romantic and relaxed, but it can gradually become stable through practical responsibilities. In particular, marriage cannot bypass the Tianzhai Palace.
Migration, making friends and the four modernizations illustrate external influences
Relationships are also affected by the external world: distance, work changes, friend circles, cooperation networks, family evaluations, and social pressure will all affect intimate relationships. The Migration Palace looks at the external field, the Friendship Palace looks at the interpersonal network, and the Four Transformations illustrate how resources, power, reputation, and pressure flow into or out of the Marriage Palace.
Therefore, the real relationship judgment is not "if the couple's palace is good, it is good, and if it is bad, it is bad", but to see what forces support the relationship and what forces consume it.
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