What does Ziwei Dou Shu think about relationships and marriage?

The Marriage Palace is important, but it is not the verdict on the outcome of the marriage. It looks at expectations, projections, conflict patterns, attraction patterns and stress in relationships. Seeing that there is a lot of pressure in the couple palace does not mean that they will definitely separate; seeing that there are many auspicious stars does not mean that there is no need to manage.

Relationships are formed by structure and choice.

The life palace looks at the self-pattern, and the merit palace looks at the inner settlement. Whether a person can enjoy a relationship, whether he is prone to anxiety, and whether he will transfer his sense of value to his partner cannot be judged solely from the couple palace.

There are many emotional stuck points. On the surface, it is the other party, but at the root, it is one's own sense of security and emotional digestion.

Marriage and long-term relationships must look at the land and the house. Farm and house are related to common space, family order, asset arrangement, security and life stability. Being in love does not mean that living together is smooth, and having strong attraction does not mean that you can handle long-term responsibilities.

Tianzhai allows feelings to fall from emotions to life.

Ziwei can remind you of relationship issues, but divorce, cheating, or breakup should not be dismissed lightly. A more responsible way of writing is to point out interaction patterns, risk conditions, remediation options, and realistic options.

Good emotional interpretation should make people more mature, not more scared.